Whether one is just engaged, or already married there are fundamentals, which are important in any relationship. This covers Love, Trust, Finance, Roles, Goals and Spirituality.
I will go over each one of these elements as to their importance.

Love, this is something one gives unconditionally. These days love has been perverted to mean as long as you fulfill my requirements. If that is the case then, you are not in love. Actual real love is a complete surrender that demonstrates your devotion. If one of the partners loses their job, gets ill or becomes overweight then all bets 먹튀검증먹튀검증 are off. That is not a true test of love nor is it unconditional.

Some people are not ready for such a commitment. I know, as I was one of them. Sometimes we confuse lust for love. You must separate that notion of having any superficial conditions for your relationship. If you cannot commit 100% to your spouse then you are simply not ready. Move on until you find yourself ready for that commitment.

One of the major pitfalls is moving in together before you are actually married. The problem with this is that human beings are not cars; this is like kicking the tires and checking under the hood to see if this will work out. This is not a real commitment, this is just testing the waters.

If you want to test the water, then go to each other's homes and check out how they live, where they live, the upkeep of the home and its condition. Get to know the family members and know a little bit more of the family history. Look at the books in their library or do they have one. Where do they work and how long have they worked there. That will disclose a lot about a person and their character.

Trust is a major component of a relationship. Trust is rooted with honesty and transparency. The ability to confide in another without apprehension that they will disseminate or violate your confidence is very important. If you love them but cannot trust them or feel that they are cheating or not telling all, the relationship will not last. You have to have the ability to trust, without that; you are going to walk on eggshells and become secretive on different issues.

Trust does not mean that one is in agreement with the others actions. Trust is knowing that they will listen and acknowledge that which is given in confidence. It is also the additional belief that the other person is devoted to you and not easily led or strayed away in behavior. It deals with honesty, straight talk without excuses or fabrications.

You can test this easily by asking questions related to their everyday lives. Ask about what their feelings are regarding spirituality, politics or their routine each day and why they do the things that they do.

Finance is a big factor for marriage. You want to ensure that one or both spouses are financially responsible or that they are in control of their finances. Mistakes of the past can bite you, but if their current practice has corrected those errors then that reflects fiscal responsibility and progress in the handling of money.

Ideally, you want to make sure that both spouses agree on how they want to "handle" the finances of the relationship. You want to have agreement on the cash management "methods" that are sound and will help in the future financial growth of the relationship itself.

Marriage is not a competitive sport. One should not try to be better than the other, but acts in the best interest of the relationship itself. It doesn't matter who makes the most money, at the end of one's life, you will not take anything with you. What is important is what you leave behind and to whom.

The roles that one will assign to each other are also important. Traditionally, the man is the head of the household. This can be that there is equality in the running of the household. Agreements, such as who will cook, who handles the money, are necessary to define. Roles well defined and agreed upon sets up the parameters to place order and motion within the relationship.

If you decide, that one spouse will cook and the other will do the dishes that place an order to the day. One can vary the roles such as if one spouse comes home before the other than that person does the cooking. You can agree to do dishes together. You may feel this is micromanaging too much, but little things that go uncorrected can bring about resentment.

Little things make up for most of the friction in relationships. That is why agreements before you go full tilt on a marriage is important. From the time you get up, arriving or leaving the house, calling if one will be late or delayed for dinner or an event are the things that add up.
The joint relationship and personal goals should be defined and set. Maybe one has some educational goals that they want to achieve. The support of the other spouse is necessary to help the other to achieve those goals or benchmarks. Goals such as for retirement or investments should be brought out and established with the parameters necessary to achieve them, it would be well to define them.

Spirituality is another major deal breaker. Is one-spouse religious practices in conflict with the other? If so, then this may cause a major problem with the relationship. Know before you go. I recall a survey that was done once, whereby religious beliefs were a major factor of conflict within a marriage.